Bachon ka Ehtsaab

Overview:

“Bachon Ka Ehtisaab” is a guiding book for parents that highlights the importance of children's upbringing in light of the Qur’an and Sunnah. It teaches parents that in order to protect children from sins and harmful habits, it is essential to monitor their activities, friendships, and company. The book especially emphasizes the honor of daughters, declaring their proper upbringing a means to attain Paradise. Written in a simple and easy-to-understand manner, this book offers practical advice to help parents raise righteous children and direct them toward the pleasure of Allah.

Key Features:

1. Guidance from the Qur’an and Sunnah
   The book presents authentic references from the Qur’an and Hadith, such as the precedence given to daughters over sons (Surah Ash-Shura: 49-50) and the glad tidings of Paradise for their proper upbringing.

2. The Honor of Daughters

   • Feeling sorrow over the birth of daughters is a trait of disbelievers, while loving them is a path to Paradise.

   • Righteous daughters can be a means of salvation from Hell and companionship with the Prophet ﷺ.

   • A mother who sacrifices for her daughters is promised Paradise.

3. Accountability of Children

   • Parents must keep an eye on their children’s actions, friendships, and daily routines.

   • Good company leads children toward Paradise, whereas bad company leads to misguidance.

4. Simple and Practical Advice
   The book is written in plain language for everyday parents, offering practical and actionable guidance for both religious and worldly upbringing of children.